Books

By Jennifer Pool, Ph.D. available in paperback and Kindle.

Explore books on trauma, relationships, self-trust, and human behavior.

Trauma Priority Lock

Trauma Priority Lock

Why the Worst Day of Your Life Refuses to Become History

Why do some of life’s worst experiences continue influencing us years later?

Trauma Priority Lock examines how the brain and nervous system can become anchored to a single event, treating a historical crisis as an active threat. Through a practical framework for understanding and recalibration, Jennifer Pool, Ph.D. explores what it takes to finally move forward.

He Lied. You Knew. But You Listened Anyway

He Lied. You Knew. But You Listened Anyway

Rebuilding Trust in Yourself After Gaslighting and Blame

You knew something was wrong. You just weren’t sure if you could trust yourself.

He Lied. You Knew. But You Listened Anyway examines the behavioral patterns behind deception, gaslighting, and self-abandonment while providing a path back to clarity, confidence, and self-trust.

Stop Dating Like a Weirdo

Stop Dating Like a Weirdo

How Your Unrealistic Standards Are Killing Your Chances at Love

Modern dating was supposed to make love easier. Instead, many people feel more lonely, emotionally exhausted, and disconnected than ever before.

Stop Dating Like a Weirdo explores how unrealistic expectations, endless options, emotional perfectionism, and hyper-filtering have quietly transformed dating into a search for perfection rather than connection.

Drawing from personal experience, decades of observing human behavior, and examples of relationships that have stood the test of time, Jennifer Pool challenges readers to rethink what actually creates compatibility, trust, and lasting love. This is not a book about settling. It is a book about reconnecting with what actually matters.

Love still exists. Many people simply need to stop searching for perfection in order to experience it again.

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